PHP-FPM reload mode "restart" ignored when using Nginx webserver
## Summary
When using Nginx as webserver, the PHP-FPM reload mode is totally ignored. No matters you put reload or restart, ISPConfig always reload PHP-FPM.
## Steps to reproduce
1. Install ISPConfig with Nginx
2. Install additional PHP version
3. Enable debug mode and set PHP-FPM reload mode to "restart"
4. Create/edit site with PHP-FPM enabled and choose a version
5. Look at logs
## Correct behaviour
ISPConfig should restart PHP-FPM instead of reload if this is specified like this in the configuration.
## Environment
Server OS + version: Debian 11.1
ISPConfig version: 3.2.11
Software version of the related software:
```
root@server:~# nginx -v
nginx version: nginx/1.18.0
root@server:~# php8.1 -v
PHP 8.1.0 (cli) (built: Nov 25 2021 20:48:52) (NTS)
Copyright (c) The PHP Group
Zend Engine v4.1.0, Copyright (c) Zend Technologies
with Zend OPcache v8.1.0, Copyright (c), by Zend Technologies
```
(This is the PHP 8.1 from deb.sury.org repository)
## Proposed fix
The problem is on `nginx_plugin.inc.php` line 3054, the reload mode is hardcoded to "reload":
```
$app->services->restartService('php-fpm', 'reload:'.$php_version['php_fpm_init_script']);
```
Instead of hardcoding like this, we can reuse the code on `apache2_plugin.inc.php` to get the reload mode and use it properly:
```
$web_config = $app->getconf->get_server_config($conf["server_id"], 'web');
$php_fpm_reload_mode = ($web_config['php_fpm_reload_mode'] == 'reload')?'reload':'restart';
$app->services->restartService('php-fpm', $php_fpm_reload_mode.':'.$web_config['php_fpm_init_script']);
```
## Related log entries
```
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [nginx plugin.inc:3032] - Writing the PHP-FPM config file: /etc/php/8.1/fpm/pool.d/web5.conf
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [services.inc:56] - Calling function 'restartPHP_FPM' from module 'web_module'.
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [system.inc:2083] - Trying to use Systemd to restart service
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [system.inc:2431] - safe_exec cmd: systemctl is-enabled 'php8.1-fpm' 2>&1 - return code: 0
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [system.inc:2098] - ######################################reload php8.1-fpm
26.09.2023-08:26 - DEBUG [web module.inc:316] - Restarting php-fpm: systemctl reload php8.1-fpm.service
```
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