automatically enable remote access and add the webserver's ip to the remote_ips list

- Added missing sys_tpl table to ispconfig3.sql and moved the definition of the table to the upd_0035.sql file as new tables cant be added in existing update files.
- added new ssl_key field to web_domain table.
- cleaned up unused code from apache plugin.

- install: touch auth.log
- login: write success/fail to auth.log
- cron: log rotation for auth.log

- Added new web folder named private to web folder layout. The folder is intended to store data that shall not be visible in the web directory, it is owned by the user of the web.
- Changed ownership of web root directory to root user in all security modes to prevent symlink attacks.
- Apache log files are now owned by user root.
- Improved functions in system library.

fail2ban compatible login log (no permissions for /var/log/ispconfig/login.log) - to be fixed! (FS#2244)

- Fixed: FS#2292 - monitor_tools.inc.php uses /var/vmail and not the mail directory specified in server config
- Changed code comment in login/index.php file.