Change the name from proxy_protocol to use_proxy_protocol in vhost file due to site level overriding the check

tested both on apache2 and nginx with haproxy load balancer on TCP Mode

Added Global Setting to Server config tab to
  - Enable & Disable the feature
  - Set the Proxy HTTP & HTTPS Ports

Added Per site level switch to enable and disable feature (Located in the Web Tab under the advanced section)

Added Apache2 and Nginx vhost updates to enable proxy_protocol on the listen lines

Added New database column to web_domain called "proxy_protocol" to enable site level config (Patch file Added upd_0089.sql)

Updated the Base Table SQL file to include "proxy_protocol" field

Helmo authored Sep 24, 2019 and Till Brehm committed Sep 24, 2019

Some form of inheritance might be nice to reduce the amount of duplication in these files.

Some were already in English, most were still in German.

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