Mailbox quota can now be included into website quota (FS#3297)

Feature can be activated over admin mailserver settings. when activated websites uid is used instead of standard vmail-uid. this only takes effect if web and mailserver are on the same server, otherwise it will be old behaviour. switching this setting when mailboxes exist doesn't matter. Mailboxfolder will be created with website uid for this. access of postfix and dovecot now works over mysql-table mail_user. virtual_uid_maps is changed from static to mysql-table. for dovecot<->postfix communication protocoll is changed vrom lda to lmtp. disablelmtp-column is added to mail_user-table. uid and gid can be overwritten by remoting.

Maybe there must be done some additional changes in install/update-script - I already changed the lines where virtual_transport is set to dovecot directly.